H HARRIS
Neurodivergent COACH, CONSULTANT & TRAINER
Welcome
Why Me?
Hi I’m H. I am a personal development coach dedicated to helping neurodivergent individuals who are exhausted from a lifetime of masking and hiding their true selves. My mission is to guide you in creating a life that aligns with who you really are—a life where your goals, happiness, and unique strengths can flourish without compromise. This isn’t about forcing you to fit into a mold; it’s about empowering you to define success, happiness, and growth on your terms. Together, we’ll find shatter limitations, break free from societal expectations and carve a path that honors your authentic identity. Here, your goals are limitless, and so are you.
Ready to find out more?
My Story
I’m an ADHD/neurodivergent, queer, black person. I’ve seen what happens when we’re asked to keep parts of ourselves hidden or quiet, to live on autopilot in lives that don’t make us happy. For years, that was me, trying to keep all the parts of me separate, until I was overwhelmed and invisible in my own life. Until I couldn’t do it anymore. And, through coaching, I found my way to an identity and a life that was mine.
I began my career as a teacher in 2011, working primarily with neurodivergent children and young people. My own journey of self-discovery ignited a passion for coaching, which ultimately led me to develop The Autistic Advantage.
I launched The Autistic Advantage in 2020 to coach adults who’d lost themselves in jobs, relationships, and lives that didn’t make them happy. I work with people trapped in cycles of anxiety and “shoulds,” individuals who were told their worth lay in fitting in and conforming. Now I coach clients around the world to take back that power, find joy and authenticity, and live with pride in every intersectional aspect of their identity. The Autistic Advantage is now known as H Harris: Neurodivergent Coach, Consultant, and Trainer, exemplifying my core belief that your identity is your most valuable asset.
I’ve spoken in national neurodivergent spaces, been nominated for a National Diversity Award, and led training for leading autism charities including the PDA Society and Autism East Midlands. This is about a vision, not just for clients but for a society where diversity is seen as a strength, where everyone lives as they’re meant to—unapologetic, authentic, and powerful.
Why People Love Working With Me
I’m real. I’ve been there, in the hard, in the quiet, and I know how to hold that space for my clients. I’m deeply empathetic, unapologetically honest, and I swear more than a little. But I believe in my clients’ potential like they can’t imagine. I see them, and I don’t settle for a world that makes them stay quiet. Working with me is about joining a tribe where we celebrate diversity in all its deep, beautiful richness. It’s about bringing your own badass self to the world, feeling seen, valued, and ready to live life without apology.
What I Do
I coach neurodivergent adults ready for transformation. We work to let go of limiting beliefs, unlearn all those “shoulds,” and rediscover who they truly are. My clients find belonging, confidence, and clarity, and leave knowing how to make the world fit instead of the other way around. Because I believe diversity isn’t just “okay” – it’s the key to a vibrant, inclusive world, and it starts by seeing ourselves for who we really are.
“H has helped me in inexplicable ways. I can’t find the words to express gratitude for them. I don’t know what life would look like today if H wasn’t involved in our lives. I see her as the 4th emergency service.
They are passionate, understanding and truly honest but still with a professional style. I am learning more about myself with H over the past two years than I have in my whole lifetime. If you feel lost alone, frustrated and unheard then I recommend H whole heartedly. I would actually go as far as to say they have saved my life.”
“Finding out I was ND was a massive shock, and it could have easily sent me into a complete breakdown. But H, you’ve been there every step of the way, guiding me through small but important steps.
I’ve had moments where I’ve fallen apart a bit, and you’ve been the one to help me put me back together. H is really good at what they do, and I’ll always be grateful our paths crossed.”
“When I first started working with H I felt lost. I felt out of my depth and everything I had tried hadn’t worked – I was drowning. H listened without judgment and was instantly able to translate the way I saw the world into English! As we began my process of self-discovery H was there every step of the way.
For the first time my future not only made sense to me but felt positive and possible. They helped me to restore my confidence and resilience in myself as a person and a parent. I no longer worry about being judged, fear life or wish each day away. I love the person that I am and the life I continue to create for myself. The difference H has made to my family’s life, I will be forever grateful for.”